The Woman at the Grave
The 1801 burial record of two-year-old François Guilbault at the Oka mission names a witness: Catherine Nesepik8e. No previous researcher had identified her. The case study traces her across parish registers from Longue-Pointe (1793) through Oka (1797–1801), matching five different priestly renderings of the same Algonquian name to establish that Catherine Messinabikwe — Ottawa (Odawa) woman, partner of Jacques Gruet, mother of five children born in the Wisconsin fur trade country and at the Oka mission — was the woman who stood at that grave.
The identification connects two Indigenous families at Oka: the Guilbault-Abitakijikokwe family (Saulteaux/Ojibwe, Lake Superior) and the Gruet-Messinabikwe family (Ottawa/Odawa, Michilimackinac). Both women came from the Great Lakes fur trade world. Both raised and buried children at the same small mission. The 1801 register page where their lives intersect is a window into Oka's multi-nation Indigenous community.
Subject: Catherine Messinabikwe Madore Odaawak (c.1767–unknown). Partner of Jacques/James Gruet (c.1770–unknown). Mother of at least five children: Catherine Anne Skaneisa (c.1786–1837), Guillaume (1789–unknown), Charlotte (c.1793–1799), Marie Thérèse (c.1795–unknown), Antoine Hyacinthe (1798–1885). FamilySearch PID: GZC2-2VQ.
Subject Identification
| Catherine Messinabikwe | Born c.1767. Nation: Odawa (Ottawa). Also known as: Madore, Mador, Mabre, Messinebik8e, Missinebikoue, Nesepik8e, Mepenebikoue. FamilySearch PID: GZC2-2VQ. No death record confirmed — 1868 Sandwich burial is a research lead (see Section 6). |
| Partner | Jacques/James Gruet (also Grouet, Gruette, Grouette), c.1770–unknown. French-Canadian fur trader active in the Wisconsin country. FamilySearch PID: GZC2-F8X. No church marriage found — all children baptized as fils/fille naturel(le). |
| Known Children | Catherine Anne Skaneisa (c.1786–1837, married François Xavier Oronhiatkhat at Oka); Guillaume (born 13 Jan 1789 in Wisconsin, baptized Longue-Pointe 1793); Charlotte (c.1793–1799, died age ~10 at Oka); Marie Thérèse (c.1795–unknown); Antoine Hyacinthe (14 Feb 1798–1885, founding Western Canadian Métis figure). |
| Documentary Range | 1793 (Longue-Pointe baptisms) through 1801 (François Guilbault burial at Oka). Daughter's burial 1837. Possible 1868 burial at Sandwich, Ontario (unconfirmed). |
| Connection to Guilbault | Named as witness at the burial of François Guilbault, age 2, son of Gabriel Guilbault & Marie Josephte Abitakijikokwe, at Oka on 4 April 1801. Recorded by Father Leclerc as "Catherine Nesepik8e." Both she and Gabriel declared they could not sign. |
| The Core Question | Who was "Catherine Nesepik8e" — and is she the same woman recorded as "Catherine Mador" (1793), "Catherine Messinebik8e" (1797–1798), and "Catherine Missinebi8e" (1799)? |
| Researcher's Relationship | Catherine is connected through the Guilbault-Abitakijikokwe family. Marie Josephte Abitakijikokwe is the researcher's 4th great-grandmother. Catherine's presence at the burial of Marie Josephte's son places her in the Guilbault family's immediate Oka community. |
Section 1 · Catherine's Name Across Records — The Evidence Chain
1793 Baptisms — Guillaume & Anne Marie Catherine Grouet, Longue-Pointe
Guillaume: PRDH #650339. "Baptisé sous condition, agé de 5 ans, fils naturel né dans le Ouisconsin le 13-01-1789." The Wisconsin birth confirms fur trade origins — Jacques Gruet was active in the upper Great Lakes and Wisconsin country. Guillaume is missing from the current FamilySearch family and needs to be added.
Anne Marie Catherine: PRDH #650340. "Baptisée sous condition, agée de 6 ans et demi, fille naturelle née dans le Ouisconsin." Birth c.1787. This daughter later married François Xavier Oronhiatkhat (Iroquois) at Oka and died there in 1837 age 51.
1797 Baptisms — Charlotte & Marie Thérèse Grouet, Oka
Godparents for both baptisms: Sr Ignace Pillet, Marie Josette Defond, Sr Laurent Bertrand, Marie Félicité Pillet — all signed. Charlotte would die at Oka in 1799, age approximately 10.
1798 Baptism — Antoine Hyacinthe Grouet, Oka
Antoine Hyacinthe Grouet (1798–1885) became a founding figure in the Western Canadian Métis community. Born at Oka to an Ottawa mother and a French-Canadian fur trader father, he moved west and became part of the Red River settlement. His trajectory — from a mission baptism to Métis nationhood — is the broadest arc of any of Catherine's children.
1799 Burial — Marie Charlotte Gruet, Oka
Charlotte died at age approximately 10 — she had been baptized in 1797 as age 4, born c.1793. Witnesses Williams Gruet (a relative of Jacques?) and Michel Mokaba confirm an extended family and community network at the mission. The same-day burial of Geneviève Pachitabano8e, age approximately 48, another Indigenous woman, underscores the losses this small community absorbed.
1801 Burial — François Guilbault, Oka · THE PIVOTAL RECORD
Section 2 · Name Variant Analysis — Five Spellings, One Woman
The Name Chain — How Different Priests Heard the Same Algonquian Name
| Year | Record | Priest | Name as Written | Rendering | Analysis |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1793 | Baptism (Longue-Pointe) | Girouard | Catherine Mador / Mabre | French surname only | No Indigenous name recorded. Two different French surnames for the same person. Longue-Pointe context = French identity foregrounded. |
| 1797 | Baptism (Oka) | Malard | Catherine Messinebik8e | Messinebikwe | Full Algonquian name. Root: Missin-/Messine- + -bik8e (stone/metal woman). Algonquian ikwe = woman. |
| 1798 | Baptism (Oka) | Malard | Catherine Messinebi8e | Messinebikwe | Same priest, nearly identical rendering. Consistent hand. |
| 1799 | Burial (Oka) | Malard | Catherine Missinebi8e | Missinebikwe | Same priest, third time. Slight: "Missine" vs. "Messine." PRDH normalized: MISSINEBIKOUE. |
| 1801 | Burial (Oka) | Leclerc | Catherine Nesepik8e | Nesepikwe | DIFFERENT PRIEST → DIFFERENT HEARING. Initial "N" vs. "M." Middle "sep" vs. "ssin." Same -bik8e/-pikwe suffix. Core of the identification. |
Additional database renderings: WikiTree and Geni list "Messinabikwe / Messinebike" with "Odaawak" (Ottawa nation) designation, compiled from multiple sources. FamilySearch PID GZC2-2VQ lists alternate names: Madore, Mador, Mabre, Missinebikoue, Messinebik8e, Nesepik8e, Mepenebikoue.
Section 3 · Connection to the Guilbault-Abitakijikokwe Family
François Guilbault — PRDH Records & Birth Register
The documentary logic: François was born at St-Paul-de-Joliette in September 1799, where the priest recorded his mother only as "sauvagesse de la nation des Sauteux" — no name. He died at Oka in April 1801, where Father Leclerc preserved his mother's full Ojibwe name: "Marie Josephte Abitakijikokwe." At that same burial, standing beside Gabriel, was "Catherine Nesepik8e" — the woman this case study identifies as Catherine Messinabikwe of the Gruet family.
Section 4 · Daughter Catherine's Records — Proving Daughter ≠ Mother
1837 Burial — Catherine Anne Grouet, Oka
Section 5 · The 1801 Register Page — Oka's Multi-Nation Community
Every Name on the Page — March–April 1801 Oka Register
| Date | Record | Person | Indigenous Name | Nation | Details | Status |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 28 Mar | Burial | Agathe Françoise | Kareniato? | Iroquois | Age ~14. "Iroquoise of this mission." Priest: Sauvage. | Partial |
| 28 Mar | Witness | Louis Rosennaha8enet | Rosennaha8enet | Iroquois? | Witnessed Agathe Françoise burial. | Not identified |
| 28 Mar | Witness | François Xavier Ronsanin8on | Ronsanin8on | Iroquois? | Witnessed Agathe Françoise burial. | Not identified |
| 4 Apr | Burial | François Guilbault | — | French-Métis | Age 2. Son of Gabriel & Marie Josephte Abitakijikek8e. OUR RECORD. | Identified |
| 4 Apr | Witness | Catherine Nesepik8e | Nesepik8e (= Messinabikwe) | Ottawa | THE WOMAN WE'RE IDENTIFYING. Priest: Leclerc. | Strong candidate |
| 5 Apr | Baptism | Elizabeth | — | Iroquois | Age ~3 weeks. Parents: Ignace Karetton & Catherine Kangankob8en. Priest: Sauvage. | Partial |
| 5 Apr | Mother | Catherine Kangankob8en | Kangankob8en | Iroquois | DIFFERENT Catherine from Nesepik8e. | Not identified |
| 8 Apr | Burial | Catherine (elderly) | Not fully legible | Iroquois | Age ~80. "Iroquoise of this mission." Witnesses: Laurent Sarita(?), Alois Sagotibli. | Not identified |
| 8 Apr | Witness | Alois Sagotibli | Sagotibli | Iroquois? | Witnessed both Catherine (~80) and Jean Bernard burials same day. | Not identified |
| 8 Apr | Burial | Jean Bernard | — | Mixed? | Age ~1. Parents: Ignace Roteinakge & Angélique Tisakatasaran ("sauvagesse"). | Partial |
| 8 Apr | Father | Ignace Roteinakge | Roteinakge | Iroquois? | Father of Jean Bernard. | Not identified |
| 8 Apr | Mother | Angélique Tisakatasaran | Tisakatasaran | Indigenous | "Sauvagesse" — no nation specified. | Not identified |
| 8 Apr | Witness | Charles Garontataron | Garontataron | Iroquois? | Witness at Jean Bernard burial. | Not identified |
| 8 Apr | Baptism | Louise | — | French | Parents: Antoine Roi & Marie Louise Seguin, cultivateurs de Rigaud. NON-INDIGENOUS entry. | N/A |
What this page reveals: In an eleven-day span at the Oka mission, the register records two burials of young children (Agathe Françoise, age 14; François Guilbault, age 2), two infant burials (Jean Bernard, age 1; Catherine, age ~80), one infant baptism (Elizabeth), and one French baptism (Louise). The Indigenous names — Karetton, Kangankob8en, Roteinakge, Tisakatasaran, Garontataron, Rosennaha8enet, Ronsanin8on, Sagotibli — are overwhelmingly Iroquois, reflecting Oka's Kanehsatà:ke Mohawk community. Catherine Nesepik8e and Marie Josephte Abitakijikokwe stand out as Algonquian names in an Iroquois-majority mission context.
Section 6 · Research Leads — Still to Confirm
1868 Burial — Catherine Madore, Sandwich, Ontario Research Needed
⚠ RESEARCH FLAG: This reads "Catherine Madore, veuve de François Brian Grouette, âgée d'environ quatre-vingt-cinq ans." Age 85 in 1868 → born c.1783. If the mother Catherine was born c.1767, she would be approximately 101 in 1868 — an age discrepancy of roughly 16 years. The spouse name "François Brian Grouette" does NOT match Jacques/James Gruet.
Three possibilities: (a) A different Catherine Madore in the broader Grouette family. (b) The mother Catherine Messinabikwe with an inaccurate recorded age. (c) A daughter-in-law or other relative. The use of "Madore" — the same French surname from the 1793 Longue-Pointe baptism — is suggestive. The Sandwich/Windsor location is consistent with westward movement toward the Great Lakes fur trade routes. Requires further research: Sandwich parish records, PRDH/BMS2000 index, identification of "François Brian Grouette."
Priority Research Gaps Open
| Priority | Document Needed | Where to Search | Why It Matters |
|---|---|---|---|
| HIGH | Catherine's own baptism record | Michilimackinac (Ste. Anne's) registers; possibly late baptism at Oka or Montréal | Would confirm her nation (Ottawa/Odawa), her parents, and approximate birth date. Eliminates the c.1767 vs. c.1783 ambiguity. |
| HIGH | Church marriage to Jacques Gruet | Oka, Montréal, Longue-Pointe registers | All children baptized as fils/fille naturel(le) suggesting no church marriage. If no record exists, document as negative evidence. |
| HIGH | Catherine's burial record (the MOTHER) | Oka (if died before c.1810s); Sandwich/Windsor ON; or Red River | The 1837 Oka burial is the DAUGHTER. The 1868 Sandwich burial needs confirmation. Mother's death is UNKNOWN. |
| HIGH | 1868 Sandwich burial — full analysis | Sandwich (L'Assomption) parish, Essex, Ontario. PRDH or BMS2000 index. | Who was "François Brian Grouette"? Is this actually Catherine Messinabikwe? Resolve the age discrepancy. |
| MED | Guillaume Grouet's later records | After 1793 baptism (born 1789 Wisconsin). Missing from FamilySearch. | Did he survive to adulthood? What happened after conditional baptism? Add to FamilySearch. |
| MED | Marie Thérèse Grouet's later records | After 1797 baptism at Oka (age 2) | No burial found, no marriage found. Did she survive? Marry? Move west with siblings? |
| MED | Jacques/James Gruet's burial record | Oka, Sandwich, or elsewhere. WikiTree: born 1770, death unknown. | When and where did he die? Affects Catherine's status as widow in 1868 record. |
| MED | Catherine as godmother/witness in other Oka records | PRDH individual record search; browse Oka registers 1795–1810 | Would establish her social network at the mission and relationship to the Guilbault family. |
| MED | 1825 or 1831 Oka mission census | Pouliot-Thisdale transcriptions; Library & Archives Canada | Could show Catherine and/or Jacques still at Oka, or confirm they had already left. |
| LOW | Eric Pouliot-Thisdale's 1801–1821 volume | Contact researcher; academia.edu | His 1786–1800 volume covers the Grouet entries. A 1801–1821 volume would contain the François burial transcription. |
| LOW | Algonquian linguistic analysis of "Messinabikwe" | Algonquin or Ojibwe language scholar; ojibwe.lib.umn.edu | Name root missin- + abik + -we/kwe may reveal meaning ("big stone woman" or "metal/lead woman"). Confirms Ottawa/Ojibwe nation. |
| LOW | Michilimackinac register connections | Access Genealogy transcribed registers; FamilySearch films | Any Mador/Madore entries in 1760s–1780s could reveal her family of origin and confirm Ottawa heritage. |
Document Count Summary
| Category | Count | Status |
|---|---|---|
| Catherine's name across records — evidence chain (1793–1801) | 14 documents | ✅ Complete |
| Connection to Guilbault-Abitakijikokwe family | 4 documents | ✅ Complete |
| Daughter Catherine's records (proving daughter ≠ mother) | 2 documents | ✅ Complete |
| Family context records (FamilySearch profiles, family view) | 3 documents | ⚠ Guillaume missing from FamilySearch |
| 1801 register page — community names identified | 15 individuals across 8 entries | ⚠ Most names not yet identified |
| Research leads — 1868 Sandwich burial | 1 document | ⚠ Research needed |
| Name variant analysis | 5 variants across 8 renderings | ✅ Complete — pattern established |
| TOTAL DOCUMENTS CATALOGED | 26 documents | ✅ Inventory complete |
| Open: Mother's burial (unknown) · 1868 Sandwich burial (unconfirmed) · Catherine's own baptism (not found) · Guillaume's later records (not searched) · Linguistic analysis (not started) | ||
Case Study Outline — Draft Status
| Section | Content | Documents Used | Status |
|---|---|---|---|
| I · The Question | Who was Catherine Nesepik8e? The 1801 burial record names a woman no one has identified. | #11–14 | Ready |
| II · The Context | Two Indigenous women from the Great Lakes fur trade, both raising and burying children at the same small mission. | #8–10, #25–26 | Ready |
| III · The Methodology | Tracing one Indigenous woman across five colonial spellings. How different priests heard the same name. | #3, #4, #9, #11 + Name Variants | Ready |
| IV · The Identification | Catherine Messinabikwe, Ottawa woman from Michilimackinac. The evidence chain from Mador to Nesepik8e. | All 14 + Name Variants | Ready |
| V · The Families | Two families at Oka — Guilbault-Abitakijikokwe (Saulteaux) and Gruet-Messinabikwe (Ottawa). Shared grief, shared community. | #8–14 + Guilbault records | Ready |
| VI · The Broader Story | The 1801 register page as a window into Oka's multi-nation community. Indigenous names on every line. | #12, #14 + 1801 Register Names | In Progress |
| VII · The Legacy | The Grouette family as founding Western Canadian Métis. From Michilimackinac to Red River and beyond. | FamilySearch, WikiTree, A Canadian Family blog | Needs Research |
| VIII · Open Questions | The 1868 Sandwich burial. Guillaume's disappearance. The mother's death. | #22 + Still Needed | Needs Research |
Navigate the Research
This document inventory supports the case study and connects to the broader Guilbault-Abitakijikokwe research. Return to the Abitakijikokwe Discovery, the Voyageur Years, or the documentary biographies from here.
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