✦ Patriarch ✦
Miles Murtha O'Brien
January 28, 1904 – January 16, 1984
The carpenter who built with double vision
Miles Murtha O'Brien
A Brick Fell. He Fell. He Worked Alone for Fifty More Years.
In January 1928, Miles Murtha O'Brien married Lillian Robertson on his twenty-fourth birthday. Two years later, while working construction on one of Manhattan's rising skyscrapers, a brick struck him in the head and sent him falling through an elevator shaft. He survived — but he would see double for the rest of his life.
And somehow, impossibly, he kept working as a carpenter. Alone. For fifty more years.
But Miles had already survived worse. He had been surviving since he was two years old.
Parents: Miles Murtha Lawrence O'Brien & Margaret Mary Egan
Siblings: Nine (blended family) — Grace, Josephine, James, Margaret, Anna, Raymond, Vincent, Rita, Thomas
Occupation: Self-employed carpenter · 50+ years
Married: Lillian Josephine Robertson · January 28, 1928
Children: Six — Lillian Marie, Jeanne, Barbara Ann, Helen Grace, Miles Murtha Jr., Michael Joseph
Died: January 16, 1984 · Parlin, New Jersey · age 79
The Boy Who Lost His Mother
Brooklyn, 1904–1906
In June 1905, a census taker recorded the household at 174 Milford Street in Brooklyn: Miles Murtha Lawrence O'Brien, age 33, a scale maker. His wife Margaret, also 33, born in Ireland. And their five children, ages one through six — all living.
One of those children was a one-year-old boy named Miles Murtha O'Brien.
Eight months later, on February 16, 1906, Margaret Mary Egan O'Brien was dead. She was 34 years old. The cause: heart failure brought on by acute lobar pneumonia.
Miles was two years old when he lost his mother.
His father, Miles Murtha Lawrence O'Brien, had been orphaned at nearly the same age — losing his own mother Cornelia Bedell when he was just eighteen months old, and his father Terrence six months after that. Now the pattern repeated: a toddler left motherless, a father left to raise young children alone.
A Blended Family
Ten children at 174 Milford Street
Miles's father remarried within a few years. His new wife was Anna Theresa Maguire, born in 1878. By the 1915 New York State Census, the household at Milford Street had transformed. Miles, now eleven, was one of ten children — five from his mother Margaret, and five from his stepmother Anna. Uncle Thomas Maguire also lived with the family.
Margaret Mary Egan's Children: Grace Marie (1899–1978), Josephine Agnes (1902–1940), James Henry (1903–1981), Miles Murtha (1904–1984), Margaret Mary (1905–1995)
Anna Theresa Maguire's Children: Anna Helena (1909–1931), Raymond Gerard (1910–1977), Vincent Francis (1911–1995), Rita Marie (1913–1977), Thomas Woodrow Miles "Uncle Woody" (1916–1974)
At his death in 1984, only two of his nine siblings survived: his full sister Margaret (Margaret Meyers of New York) and his half-brother Vincent (Vincent O'Brien of New York).
The Fall
Manhattan, c. 1929–1930
The family believes it was the Chrysler Building — the timing fits, and the story has been passed down for nearly a century. What we know for certain is this:
Miles was working on a scaffold in an elevator shaft. Someone above him dropped a brick — or a concrete block. It struck him in the head. He was knocked unconscious. He fell several stories before his body came to rest.
When they reached him, it seemed like a miracle: nothing was broken. But he was badly bruised and battered, his body a canvas of purple and black. He was taken to the hospital.
The treatment was simple — there wasn't much else they could do in 1930. They wrapped him in Burow's solution, an aluminum acetate compound used to reduce swelling and ease bruising. And they gave him time.
He could not work for weeks — perhaps months. There was a lawsuit; court documents were said to exist, passed between cousins in New Jersey and Florida, but they have never surfaced. What we have instead is something more durable than paper: the story itself, told and retold across generations.
And one lasting consequence that would shadow the rest of his working life.
From that day forward, Miles saw two of everything.
Two nails. Two boards. Two hammers. Double vision — permanent, unrelenting, for the rest of his life.
Lillian Josephine Robertson
1905 – 1991 · Married 56 years
Lillian Josephine Robertson O'Brien
On January 28, 1928 — his twenty-fourth birthday — Miles married Lillian Josephine Robertson at St. Gabriel's R.C. Church in Brooklyn. She was twenty-two, an orphan who had lost both parents in January 1924, just four years earlier.
Through "Aunt Betty" Mulholland, the orphaned daughter of a stone cutter's son met the Brooklyn-born son of Irish immigrants. Two people who understood loss found each other.
Lillian outlived Miles by seven years. She died on September 13, 1991 — three weeks after her brother Joseph Jay Robertson. The three orphans of 1924 left this world together, just as their parents had.
His Work
Self-employed carpenter, 1928–1984
After the fall, Miles always worked alone. His Dodge 100 truck, with its hand-painted lettering, was a fixture in the West Essex area for decades:
"Miles M. O'Brien — Carpenter — Alterations · Repairs
58 Central Ave, Caldwell, N.J. — Phone 226-3541"
Among his projects: Medical offices for Dr. Severino Ambrosio in Parlin, New Jersey — his son-in-law, married to his daughter Lillian. A kitchen renovation for his daughter Barbara in Plainfield, New Jersey — no easy job in an older house with plaster lath. Barbara's daughter Mary cried when the family moved to Ohio just after he completed it.
Self-employed his entire career. The 1942 draft registration describes him as "Self-Employed, Carpenter Contractor." The 1950 census lists him as "Carpenter, Private Building." His death certificate, fifty years after the fall: "Self-Employed, Carpenter."
All those years. With double vision. Working alone.
"How did he hammer a nail when he saw two of them?" his grandchildren would ask. No one ever got a good answer. He just did.
The Man His Grandchildren Remember
Pipe smoke, caramel candy, and the Wall Street Journal
Miles Murtha O'Brien was a man of few words — at least with the grandchildren. He would come home from work, settle into his chair in the alcove, light his pipe, and read the Wall Street Journal. The smell of that pipe tobacco still lingers in family memory decades later.
The grandchildren thought he was gruff. He would try to catch them between his legs as they walked past his chair — startling them — and then pull out a caramel candy. He was, in truth, a pussycat.
And he was shrewd. Despite his working-class appearance — carpenter's overalls, calloused hands — he did quite well in the stock market. The Wall Street Journal wasn't casual reading.
— Family story
Miles collected coins with the same quiet dedication he brought to everything. He purchased new proof sets every year — American coins and gorgeous international series. After his death, his children divided the collection among the grandchildren, with a letter:
"Always keep your Grandparents O'Brien in your hearts and remember how much they loved and cherished each one of you.
In loving memory of Grandpa and Grandma O'Brien,
From 'The Kids' — Lillian, Jeanne (RIP), Barbara, Miles Jr., and Mike"
Their Children
Six children of Miles & Lillian O'Brien
Lillian Marie O'Brien
1928 – 1995
Married Severino J. Ambrosio
Jeanne O'Brien
1930 – 1993
Married John Garrison
Barbara Ann O'Brien
1935 – 2022
Married Thomas Kenny Hamall
Helen Grace O'Brien
1940 – 1948
✦ In Memoriam ✦
Miles Murtha O'Brien Jr.
Born 1946
Identical twin · Colonel, USAF (Ret.)
Michael Joseph O'Brien
Born 1946
Identical twin · Lt. Colonel, USAF (Ret.)
📸 More Photos of Miles
Additional photographs of Miles — from his Brooklyn childhood through his years as a Caldwell carpenter — are preserved in the family photo archive.
Photo album coming soon
Stories & Memories
Remembering Miles
— Storyline Genealogy
— Jeanne Marie Garrison
Documents
Records and remembrances